Enjoy

A cup of black coffee and an Eccles cake with a bite out of it

“Two leeks and a lemon,” I said.

“Is she calling you a lemon?” the man on the market stall said to my baby. Then he said to me, “There’ll be moments you remember. Enjoy them.”

“Enjoy the quiet,” said the woman in the bakery, leaving me to my coffee and my sleeping baby.

And indeed, lately I’ve been drawing inspiration from a mug that claims The secret of enduring is enjoying.

People say it a lot. Enjoy… Enjoy… Usually it seems to be those who became parents a while ago, perhaps regretting their own missed opportunities to enjoy. I think it’s inevitable. Enjoyment is an active thing, and sometimes (often?) you don’t have the energy to be as active as all that. But there are plenty of moments, and enjoying can be as simple as noticing.